She was married to actor Chris Messina from 1995 to 2006. She married actor Ron Livingston, her co-star in Standoff, on November 2, 2009, in San Francisco. In May 2013, they announced that they had adopted a daughter. Gracie James Livingston was born on April 29, 2013. In December 2016, the couple announced they adopted another daughter, Esperanza Mae Livingston, the previous year.